There's nothing wrong with being responsible. Period.
However, in mmy opinion there are far too many members that are happy to jump to the worst possible scenario or to go straight to quoting chapter and verse in a seeming attempt to make sure everyone knows how clever they are. I know that expressing this opinion won't make me popular but I do it as a cautionary note, if we carry on treating new members like this then the forum WILL degenerate to a cliquey mess and that will harm its reputation. I've seen it happen time and again and I really don't want it to happen here.