Are they big for their age? Coming from someone that looked after gaggles of rental kids for years due to the size of the guns involved the smaller ones had issues with carrying/using them and sapped a lot of the fun out of it for them. Our insurance would only cover 13 +. It only hurts from close range and on bear skin. Some people just wear shooting glasses and get hit in the face and don't care if that's and indication for you.
You can rent at almost all sights, best to do before looking at anything gun shaped to buy. Airsofts love showing off their kit and if you ask will be more than liking to let you have a few shots.
Depending on venue I would get them some footwear with ankle support, a pair of seal skin socks (if outside), cloves/hat and get them to wear sports type clothing in layers for your first time. Take some wet wipes, kitchen roll and shaving cream to tell with clean up and keeping your goggle free from fog.