OP - I'd swap the 'can' in your posed question with 'should'.
 
	 
 
	I think in this hobby it's really worth stepping outside of our little bubble and taking a look at ourselves from an outsider's perspective.  
 
	 
 
	Our hobby is fucking weird.
 
	 
 
	'Oh yeah, at the weekend I dress up like a soldier and run around with other grown men, but also children, and play with toy guns.  Sometimes I like to wear my soldier costume in my house and look at myself in the mirror.  Oh yeah that's the wall in my office that I've dedicated to hanging all my toy guns on so I can stare at them.'
 
	 
 
	Yes, we all know we're a bunch of harmless dorks who love a weekend of BB wars as an alternative to a 5-a-side match or a round of golf.  To the general public (especially in today's intolerance fuelled culture of performative indignation) we're the people they should make laws about to make our streets and public spaces safer, only the army should be allowed to have military equipment, why can't they just play paintball... you get the idea.