Ahoy and welcome. I'm very sorry to hear that, and surprised too. My TAC-41 (gen 2, after they fixed the feed ramp) has been one of the very few airsoft purchases that's actually performed as advertised, right out of the box with just a spring change.
Your energy is spot on 2.3J, so that's not the problem. It sounds like you're just very under-hopped. Do you actually see a difference in BB trajectory as you increase the hop? You should be able to send .28g BBs into low earth orbit with a decent amount of hop applied. If not, on the off chance that there's something damaged in there, you could try a Chub Nub, or replace the hop rubber, or waaaaait a second.
When you say you've lubed it, including the "cup", have you put any sort of lube, like silicone oil, inside the barrel, hop unit, or inside the cylinder (or into the mags)? Is it possible that you've fouled the hop rubber with lubricant? And have you tried cleaning the hop rubber (and barrel) with a barrel cleaning rod and some paper towel / fabric patch, ideally with some isopropanol?
Hang in there, it's a decent design and we should be able to figure this out.