I've found the Viper Tactical gloves to be really good. They're fairly thin so you get good feeling, work with touchscreens and have nice little grippy dots on the fingers. I have various Mechanix gloves, but for airsofting find the Vipers suit me better.
I've bought a pair of Streamlight clones to go on my two 19Xs.
And a load of stupid patches and badges to go on my harness.