Not being harsh, I use ebay regulary and the amount of times people bid on an item then dont pay is ridiculous. If you dont want/cant afford it, dont bid, simple? I guess not
I'm with mack on this one, firstly, you shouldn't be using eBay at all as it's a requirement of the site that you're over 18. Secondly, people bidding on stuff and then not paying is a massive pain in the ass for any seller.
Understood, always normally pay and you can check out my eBay if you want it's just this seller was more interested in another 3rd party that offered a high amount and so I decided to just let the guy sell it to the guy that was offering higher