my wife hates me spending money on anything and gets particularly irritated in me ordering stuff (like books, i probably read 1 secondhand paperback every 1 or 2 months costing about £3 and i still get "your always ordering books")
But, she doesnt mind me being out and about and being sociable. She has played paintball before and has expressed a small interest in coming to try out airsoft but wont let me shoot her in the garden so she can test just how much it hurts