Stuck a nerve there druid?
I had grandparents, emphasis on had, I've done both those things.
I'm sorry if you you have only experienced acts of empathy and respect in grand, one off gestures, that is indeed a a very fine thing to do.
But it can also be small acts, daily, saying hello to your building manager, of a morning, not flitting past him on the way to work, thanking shop assistants when they take your basket, or listening politely when someone speak about whatever bulshit religion they believe in.
Those two people, are still people, and when I last looked, this was still a civilized society that did not stoop to such levels, we do not peddle hate and hostility.
One of those people is a diplomatic ally, the other a civilian.
Your problem with it is you do not like them, my problem is it could be our Queen up on a target, or Sir David Attenborugh, or the 98 year old you have so fetishized above, and I understand how I feel about that, and how some other people feel about these characters,a nd how that creates division and discordance within our community unnecessarily by pillorying their image.
It seems for you, empathy and respect are grand spectacles, they need not be, it's just what you do.
You seem to think I'm in some great row, or upset by people doing this, I'm not, I'm offended, I'm also offended by the smell of dogshit, and small children, offended, does not mean upset.
And I am a special kind of snowflake, an iron one:

But allow me to end by saying, I don't wish for you to feel bag, it is a very fine thing for you to be so hardy, and unaffected by irritants, but don't expect us all to subscribe to your philosophy.
When someone says they're offended, they're being restrained, what they in fact mean is someone is being rude and that they will remember that.
Cheers,
Now see this is genuinely offends me.
Let me explain, historically executions have been preformed at the tower of London, this rides roughshod over that tradition.