Am I the ass hole?

[Shamal]

Don't know what this is all about but I'm saving it for bedtime. 

Looks like a bloody good read!

Hope nobody tells me the ending cause that'll spoill it. ?

Regards

 

[Skullchewer]

If you start a thread inferring that someone else is an asshole you can't really get on a high horse about name calling.

 

[Rogerborg]

I am highly overpaid, under worked and bored. 

I am also a highly efficient multitasker and this is but one of about 20 tabs open for various projects and time sinks. 

First World IT Problems. 

Ooh, shall we compare ready cash in current accounts, versus the purchase cost that we'll argue over?  This could be a fun derail.

 

[Musica]

I am highly overpaid, under worked and bored. 

I am also a highly efficient multitasker and this is but one of about 20 tabs open for various projects and time sinks. 

First World IT Problems. 

Ditto man.

You're right that nobody is being forced to read this, but you can't make a tgread like this then get upset when you don't get the replies you want.

I said you're acting like a spoilt child so if you find that insulting you really need to grow a thicker skin, and if you want to be treated like an adult then act like one. 

I'm not upset but if you can't be civil then I will just put you on ignore. I made a thread on the internet that lets people vote that I am being an ass hole so I think I have thick enough skin. I have said I went too far leaving the feedback and that I had misunderstood the system yet you are insisting I am not acting like an adult i.e again calling me a child. Jedi already mentioned there shouldn't be any personal attacks I assume he means against any one.

If you start a thread inferring that someone else is an asshole you can't really get on a high horse about name calling.

I am not inferring that Quango2k is an ass hole and have never said anything bad about them and have only asked people to judge the situation. I put a spicy internet title on the thread but have never gone out of my way to attack or defame them. The pole has an option that either says I am an ass hole, I am not or both of us are(which still implicates me).

[SIZE=10.5pt]I had this option this morning of sending a ticket to the admins or giving everyone a spectacle and given the discussion some folk have enjoyed some light drama. However if people just start flinging shit at each other the admins won't let the show go on and name calling is how the avalanche starts.[/SIZE]

 

[Tackle]

So it was just clickbait ?, lol I guess it worked?

 

[Skullchewer]

I am not inferring that Quango2k is an ass hole and have never said anything bad about them and have only asked people to judge the situation. I put a spicy internet title on the thread but have never gone out of my way to attack or defame them.

 Now you're just talking bollocks.

"I am not inferring that Quango2k is an ass hole"

By the poll alone you did so, and you know you did.

"have never gone out of my way to attack or defame them. "

What's this thread then? 

You're trying to act like this is all an innocent misunderstanding, and getting salty because the poll/thread clearly hasn't gone the way you hoped.

It is clearly inferred by the thread, poll, and the feedback you left that you believe the seller to be the asshole in the situation.

I'd call it quits here, you think you're arguing your way out of it but you're just embarrassing yourself.

Go ahead and put me on ignore if it makes you feel better.

 

[Musica]

 Now you're just talking bollocks.

"I am not inferring that Quango2k is an ass hole"

By the poll alone you did so, and you know you did.

"have never gone out of my way to attack or defame them. "

What's this thread then? 

You're trying to act like this is all an innocent misunderstanding, and getting salty because the poll/thread clearly hasn't gone the way you hoped.

It is clearly inferred by the thread, poll, and the feedback you left that you believe the seller to be the asshole in the situation.

I'd call it quits here, you think you're arguing your way out of it but you're just embarrassing yourself.

Go ahead and put me on ignore if it makes you feel better.

[SIZE=10.5pt]This is your opinion and just like ass holes everybody has one pal. I'm done arguing with you.[/SIZE]

 

[SBoardley]

[SIZE=10.5pt]This is your opinion and just like ass holes everybody has one pal. I'm done arguing with you.[/SIZE]

Can I please change my vote?

 

[Tackle]

I'm done arguing with you.

What you mean is, your not prepared to accept an opinion that differs from your own, even though Skullchewers is 100% valid

 

[Musica]

What you mean is, your not prepared to accept an opinion that differs from your own, even though Skullchewers is 100% valid

[SIZE=10.5pt]I just don't see the point in expending the energy when I know I didn't create the thread to try to attack the seller. I have now on multiple occasions admitted fault for using the feedback system the way I did. I have just asked people to keep it civil in the discussion. I do not consider the seller to be an ass hole but I do believe his advertisement and selling practices are not upfront and that is my opinion. When he returned feedback to me I thought why bother going to the admins privately when I can give the forum some chuckles at our expense. [/SIZE]

[SIZE=10.5pt]There has been opinions on both sides but I do see a theme that I should of just walked away from the sale when I wasn't happy with it. [/SIZE]

Can I please change my vote?

Not up to me sorry.

 

[Cannonfodder]

I should of just walked away from the sale when I wasn't happy with it.

That would've been the mature thing to do. Instead you decided to create this thread and the "drama" surrounding it, hence my posts saying that you're acting in a childish way. The way you've been replying is only re-enforcing this opinion 

I am not inferring that Quango2k is an ass hole

The fact that you put the both option in the poll says otherwise. 

I suggest you drop the whole thing and ask admin to lock it as you're not doing yourself any favours by carrying on like this

 

[SBoardley]

[SIZE=10.5pt]There has been opinions on both sides but I do see a theme that I should of just walked away from the sale when I wasn't happy with it. [/SIZE]

This. 
also, this forum has an abundance of knowledgeable, intellectual and seasoned guys (and two girls I think), who do not tolerate crass immature behaviour, which is why I get myself into trouble far too often here. If you push they Will push back harder.  
just take yer hit mate. Peace. 
oh and are you typing in bold? Can I do that on my iPhone?

 

[Musica]

That would've been the mature thing to do.

Yes and admitting I should of done that and taking my deserved lumps is clearly not satisfying yourself.

The fact that you put the both option in the poll says otherwise.

I put both in the poll as I was curious if people thought there was fault/blame on both sides of the dispute but if people are voting that way I have no control over what people think on the internet. I could of added an option for "seller" but I wasn't trying to make a witch hunt or have any other tin foil hat motive than a bit of fun.

 

[Stratton Oakmont]

I like turtles

 

[Druid799]

If something in the 2nd hand sales is advertised as £30 delivered yes I would also offer a pound or two under the asking price(called haggling , always try your luck you never know ?) but not be upset if the seller said no they wants to stick at the original price BUT that’s also the price the buyer pays , YOU DO NOT spring paypal charges after the deals agreed ,  or start bleating as there’s no mention of the charges you should assume there not included and you have to pay them on top ? that’s a dick move end off . Even if it’s just for the simple fact it’s against the T&C’s to do so for starters .

As to leaving negative feedback when there hasn’t even been a sale ? FFS get a grip ! Not as if anyones is going to be out of pocket over it ! 

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FYI, I am a self confessed arsehole and proud  

Can’t argue with that ! Sorry guys but you both are .

 

[Cannonfodder]

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Careful, the op might get upset you called him a child

 

[Groot]

I like turtles

 

[DestrO]

Seems to be a lot of misconception in here that the buyer pays the fees for the protection of G&S, which is not what the fee is for. It’s just a transaction fee that should be absorbed by the seller

imo charging the buyer fees is a dick move in any circumstance. I’m happy to cover postage, but don’t act like bloody Ticketmaster

IF you are a business seller, I am not a business. 

 

[Musica]

Careful, the op might get upset you called him a child

Put on ignore I have no time for someone with the same dull patter. You are just trying to start an argument for no reason on the internet. I just asked if you could keep it civil and not resort to name calling. Not because I care what you say about me but just to keep the thread from getting locked.

All the best.

 

[Cannonfodder]

Put on ignore I have no sense of humour and the can't take a joke 

Fixed