Thanks for replies guys,
Billericay Skirmish is my closest site, so this is probably where i will end up going.
Iv been worried about others not treating me serious / ignoring me as i obviously enjoy working / socializing in a team, but as an outsider / not knowing anyone to start, i didn't know whether you would be treated different as you didn't come as a group.
From what i see and hear, it does sound like the community is very welcoming which is fantastic!