@Resistor170
Regarding the humour, I don't think you quite understand how deeply dark, twisted and distasteful the humour can get. Im not going to elaborate too much but for a pretty tame example, since you like roleplay, hahaha, try this out...
Soldier A and B are out on the piss.
Soldier A is in the middle of a conversation with you.
Soldier B walks up to soldier A and appears to hug him from the side.
Soldier A just continues his conversation with you.
You notice the 'hug' is lasting longer than normal and upon further inspection you notice that soldier B is actually taking a piss in Soldier A's pocket.
Both of them act like it's the most normal thing in the world and have a good chuckle.
Sound like anything you and your mates would do, if so, remind me to never go on the piss with you, lol
To be clear, in that scenario 'you' was actually me and a bunch of the guys in my unit and they were marines.
So yes, military humour is, again, more often than not, very very very far removed from normal, mentally balanced civvie humour and sometimes even different between branches.
Now as for the scenario of the football v rugby. The key difference between that and the actual topic is that in the rugby v football scenario you said 'let them think what the want' and left it like that. Which is perfectly fine.
However when talking about the OP's subject you didn't stop there. You elaborated and apparently assumed that the video was about dressing up like a soldier when in actual fact the bulk of the issue for those guys in the videos was regarding the mentality of some Airsoft players to think that their hobby is like the real thing and being especially arrogant about it, berating/belittling other players when they themselves don't have a clue. Taking it way too seriously. It's a game and its supposed to be fun for all, it's not possible to apply military tactics in a game of airsoft, or a video game for that matter, especially when your opponent is not of the same mindset.
For example... you can apply all the suppressive fire you want but without the fear of real mortal danger there is nothing to stop them running through your rain of fire, dodging BB's like they are in the matrix and slotting you with a spud gun, or getting shot and just respawning, but berating people over their chosen style of playing the game just because it's not 'real enough' is ridiculous and honestly, I've seen people on this forum, not as much belittling people, but clearly saying that they hate a certain way of playing just because it's 'unrealistic'.
That's the point the videos were making. They had little to no issue with guys wearing camo and rigs (insignia aside) and running around with toy weapons, they actually had a blast playing Airsoft.
But honestly, if, as you say, you were not interested in the topic enough to even take the time to understand it, why even chime in? That's a bit rude, is it not?
That would be like someone jumping into a topic you created and saying: 'This topic is boring' and adding nothing more of value.