Unfortunately too many people use it, think it needs people to make it clear that it isn't on. I took a mate of mine who happens to be gay and his friend ( it turned out it was part of a date for the two of them, I didn't realise the other guy was gay, neither are particularly obvious) to a local skirmish. The marshals referred to anything negative as 'gay' and it really upset the two of them, which was a fair comment really. They enjoyed the days play just not the 'banter...